About us

As Salaamu Aalaykum,

We’re Shadeed and Najibah Sabir — a husband-and-wife team, married for 16 beautiful years, and blessed with three amazing children. As a family rooted in faith, love, and creativity, we believe in nurturing strong connections at every stage of life.

We began our journey with The Sit Down Cards, inspired by real-life moments where people struggled to ask the right questions when getting to know a potential spouse. Our first card deck was created to make meaningful, halal conversations easier — and since then, it has helped countless individuals spark the kinds of talks that build lasting love.

But connection doesn’t stop at courtship.

Over the years, our mission has grown. Today, we offer much more than cards — including children’s books, coloring books, journals, and stickers — all designed to bring families closer, encourage reflection, and add joy to everyday life.

Whether you're preparing for marriage, raising children, or growing stronger as a family — our products are here to support you on the journey.

With love and gratitude,
Shadeed & Najibah Sabir
The Sit Down Cards